How to parallel park

Drive forward. Straighten up the wheel. Put in reverse. Back up til you see the cone in front of the car. Put in drive. Go near the cone so that it is arm’s length from the car. Reverse until the pole is aligned to the back seat door lock. Turn the wheel all the way to the right. Reverse until the pole is aligned to the passenger seat’s door lock. Turn the wheel to the left 1 full turn. (Sign of the wheel should be up). Reverse until the pole is aligned with the door knob. Turn the wheel all the way to the left.. and watch out for the curb.

Driving Lesson Day 3

I’ve been driving on the highway,  freeway,  downtown area (including Congress), neighborhood,  university area,  hills (Mt Bonnel)!

It really helped that my 3rd instructor from driversed is really calm and nice. All of them were nice and I learned a lot of different techniques from them but Mr Marques is different because he made me believe in myself.  He was really right when he told me that he specializes in making his students conquer fear.

I am really happy that I am now more confident with driving. I still need lots of practice but at least I am at a point where I am able to trust myself to make good decisions, control the car, and relax.

I just need to practice on:
1. Learning when to step on the brakes
2. Maintaining speed
3. Knowing where to go on a complete stop,  because sometimes I go over the line or way too far from the line.
4. Keeping a safe distance from other cars.
5. Changing lanes safely
6. Checking my blindspots
7. Making a safe right turn

Overall I think enrolling in driversed is a good idea and investment in myself. It pays to learn from the experts and to have good and patient instructors.

I hope by December or January I will be able to take my actual driving exam.

One day, a post!


I wanted to watch the last installment of Hunger Games but my dear husband wants to watch it tomorrow. Road is too busy right now and he hates driving when it’s too busy.

So here we are,  relaxing at home. Him playing his video game, MJ happily cheering on her bone and me practicing on my doodles.

There’s something I want to remember about today. I woke up around 4 in the morning and remembered something special about today. I started crying silently but I was getting choked up so I started breathing quite heavily.  My husband noticed and started hugging and comforting me. I’m so glad and thankful I have him in my life.  I love him a little bit more everyday.

Stocks Update

Haven’t done a post on stocks in a while. Good news to all those who want to start investing in stocks. Stock prices are a bit cheap these days so it’s really the best time to buy.

I made the mistake of waiting too long again to sell some of the stocks I was holding. I could have earned a lot if I sold them a couple of weeks back. My instincts were telling me to sell them but I held back, doubted and procrastinated. But it’s alright, I can just ride the waves and wait for the next high. :)

I am still subscribing to TRC and follow their pieces of advice. It helps me a lot to focus on my job and worry less about my stocks.


A piece of (unsolicited) advice to people like me who are just starting to invest in stocks: Don’t fret when you’re stock prices take a dip. It’s only temporary. Unless there’s a war or something worse than that – that’s when you start to worry. But during normal lows, just wait it out and keep calm. As long as you buy good stocks, they’ll always be able to bounce up. Never sell when you’re losing money unless necessary. Or if you know that there’s no other way for the stock but down.

Day 3: Driving lesson with Instructor from Drivers Ed

I am really determined to learn how to drive on the streets, not just around the parking lot. My husband allowed me to drive from the parking lot of ‘At Home’ to the gate of the apartment on our 2nd day of driving lessons. It was a smooth drive because there were no other vehicles and passersby. However Derek told me that I should really hire an instructor to teach me how to drive on the streets because he isn’t willing to do it for me. That’s also the same advice we got from his Mom – that if we want to avoid fighting and save our marriage, I should get someone else to teach me. Which, by the way, is a good advice (I hear it a lot from other people too)… but we’ll get to that later.

So I went online and searched for a reasonable price for a driving instructor and came across They offer different packages for adult driving lessons and I decided to try their 2-hour session, which cost me $111.

Jacob, my instructor, arrived on time, and I easily spotted him in the parking lot because the car had a big ‘’ painted on it. He introduced himself and gave me a brief overview of our activities for the 2-hour driving session. He took me to a parking lot and asked me a few basic questions on driving – such as the meaning of the color and style of the lanes – white, yellow, broken lines, solid lines, etc. And then he made me do the usual routine before driving: adjust my seat, mirrors and calm down.. :)

So we spent the first hour and 30 mins to go around the parking lot and discuss about some driving basics. He also corrected the way I turn right. I was already doing good with my left turns but I was bad with my right turns. He also noticed a lot of other mistakes I often made:

1. not looking at my mirrors from time to time
2. not checking my blindspots
3. not slowing down before I make a turn
4. not staying in my lane
5. turning the wheel too much when making turns

I thought I was doing really bad that’s why I got surprised when he told me that I will be driving us home. I was happy, and excited, but most of all, I was nervous. I was driving on the street!!! With traffic lights, cars, and pedestrians all around me! Gosh… There was a time when I was really panicking because he asked me to change lanes and make sure to check my blind spots. I just couldn’t do 2 things at the same time! When I was looking behind me if there were oncoming cars, I stepped on the brake – which is a no-no! So, I made a batch of mistakes again:

1. not taking the window of opportunity at the right moment – he said I shouldn’t hesitate on my every move because that can put me and other people in danger
2. not pushing the gas/not maintaining the speed limit – he was wary when the speed limit was 55 and I was going somewhere around 30. He told me other cars will hit us if I don’t speed up
3. stepping on the brake unnecessarily – when I’m scared or doubtful, I step on the brake.
4. stopping too close to the car in front of me in traffic – he told me to keep a good distance from the car in front of me
5. not turning the signal lights on before making turns

He made me park when we finally reached my apartment building. I was just so relieved that we made it alive and safe. He told me I did well for someone who is just driving for the first time. Yeah, that was just my 3rd day or to be really accurate – my first 5 hours behind the wheel – ever! So kudos to me! I felt happy and proud of myself that day. Haha. It felt like the longest ride I ever had. :)

Planning for a Wedding

My husband and I had our civil wedding in Austin, Texas last November 8. We did most of the preparations ourselves, from the invitations, decor (my husband even climbed the tree to hang the paper lanterns 2 hours before the ceremony), flower arrangements, bouquet, and song selection. Our friends helped in taking pictures, his uncle took the video, my friends picked the food from the caterer, his dad cooked sausage and brisket, and his family helped clean up the place after the wedding. It was a really memorable event because everybody contributed and helped us with the planning, preparations, and execution.

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Four months from now, we will get married again in the Philippines. This time we won’t be as ‘stressed’ as we were during our civil wedding. Although it was a good experience to have our DIY wedding, it would be great to just relax, have a good time and let other people take care of everything. We are having this second wedding for my family and closest friends. I want to walk down the aisle with my Papa and Mama.

It’s still hard to plan for everything because I don’t have a wedding coordinator. I rely only on connections, relatives and friends who are willing to help, and of course, Facebook. Just a little tip to people who owns businesses – especially wedding vendors: Get your business known worldwide by having a Web presence. It doesn’t have to be so sophisticated, all you need at the minimum is a Facebook page and you’ll have an opportunity to do business with practically anyone around the globe. In my experience, I found vendors through word of mouth (friends’ recommendations). They would tell me the name of the vendor, I search it online or in Facebook itself, and voila! Just a simple message opens up a good business relationship. :)

For those who are planning for their own wedding, this is my checklist:

1. Set the date. The date is really very important because you need to check if the venue is available and you need to make sure that your chosen vendors are available on the date. Most importantly, you need to make sure your guests can block their calendars for your event – especially for those who need to travel and book flights.

2. Set the budget. I could not stress this enough. There needs to be a budget. Once you and your partner have set a budget, you can then work around it and proceed with the planning. It will really help you choose your vendors. I know a lot of people splurge on their wedding. I have nothing against them. If they have the money, why not? But for ordinary people like me,  we need to set a budget – and stick to it! Don’t be easily swayed by vendors who just want you to spend more.

3. Choose and reserve the venue. Once you have carefully selected the venue, book it for your event in advance. Don’t wait until someone else reserves the date you have chosen because you will be forced to settle with a possibly more expensive venue or something that is just your second choice. You will end up regretting and wanting to kick yourself in the butt. :)

4. Do your gown shopping and fitting. Your gown doesn’t need to be expensive; nor does it need to be made by a well known designer. As long as you look beautiful, elegant, and comfortable in it, that’s great. You’ll know it when you see and feel it. :) Also one tip: ivory color is more classy and elegant than super white ones. Super white wedding gowns look cheap… Use Pinterest to look for styles, designs, and inspirations.

5. Decide on the food. Check if you guests have special preferences – cater to vegetarians and meat eaters alike. If possible, do food tasting so that you can guarantee  you will like the food.

6. Take care of the legal and church requirements. Okay, this is probably the most important step of all. Without these, your wedding won’t be legal and binding. Do your research. Find out what the requirements are and be diligent  enough to gather all your documents and your spouse’s. Take time to attend necessary seminars and learn from them.

Family Drama

Almost my entire life, I have struggled to give a better life to my family. I have always dreamt for my parents to live in a nice house, be debt-free, and just be comfortable. I also wanted my brothers and sister to finish school, get a job, and be independent. As an eldest child, I have always felt responsible for my family’s welfare.

But no matter how hard I try, no matter how much I support them financially and emotionally, I realized that I don’t really hold their future. I don’t make decisions for them and what they do with their lives is beyond my control. But sad to say, I am still affected by the consequences of their choices and actions.

When I learned that my sister got pregnant again for the 2nd time, not even a year after she gave birth to her eldest, I felt really disappointed and upset. She’s only 17 for crying out loud! I’m really mad and I can’t do anything about it.

Maybe it’s just because I have my period right now, that is why I feel so mad and have a hard time of letting it go. Argh. So disappointing.

image Living & Loving Life!


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